Baby And Parent

Posted on July 28, 2006 
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Bonding For Life

A close attachment between you and your baby begins at birth (and to some extent in utero) and continues to grow over time. To ensure an early attachment with your baby, you should do the following :

The best way to begin the bonding process is to hold your baby as much and as long as you like – no matter what your relatives and friends might say about spoiling him.

You just can’t spoil your baby in the first year of his life, can you ?

Make eye contact with your newborn baby and watch his eyes meet yours. He may be attracted to your hairline at first (because of the contrast), but soon he will be gazing lovingly into your eyes.

Bat your eyes and move them around to help him focus attention there.

Breastfeed your baby – if possible or hold him every time you formula-feed him. This will enhance the feelings of attachment between you.

Never prop a bottle to feed your baby. This will not only impair his attachment and overall development, he may choke on the milk as it pours down his throat.

Your baby responds to your touch. In fact, he thrives on it. Massage him, stroke him, caress him and handle him throughout the day. Your touch helps him grow in every way.

Carry your baby around in a front pack or sling. Your arms will be free to do things while your baby is rocked and comforted next to your body.

It’s an easy and convenient way to keep your baby close to your heart.

Enjoy your baby by chatting, singing, rocking and sharing special moments with him each day. This time really does pass quickly.

So, enjoy it while it lasts. :)

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The way I got acquainted with my baby was by telling her my thoughts, plans and secrets throughout the day. He was such a good listener. I really felt like he understood me, even though I know he did not.

As I talked to him and shared myself with him, he started to become my best friend. He still is to this day.

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